you are beautiful…

Sunday, 12 October 2008 20 comments

water color & crayon, approx. A3 size

Months ago, when I watched Oprah, I was astonished to see a person addicted to plastic surgery. She had about 27 plastic surgeries of almost all parts of her body to make her beautiful & sexy – which I didn’t see it. She looked far prettier before those knives touch her face and body.

Days ago I was so happy found out my weight lees 5 kg. I feel better off without that fat but then one of my friend said I look ugly and like a zombie. My chubbiness made me look fresher and younger…

What is beautiful actually… is it real or just a feeling…

According to Wikipedia The characterization of a person as “beautiful”, whether on an individual basis or by community consensus, is often based on some combination of inner beauty, which includes psychological factors such as personality, intelligence, grace, charm and elegance, and outer beauty, which includes physical factors, such as health, youthfulness, symmetry, averageness, and complexion.

Well yeah, of course inner beauty takes part but physical is accountable, especially if we don’t have time to get to know the person. However, beauty is subjective and sometimes depends on common measure in one society… some like skinny figures, some adore curves, some prefer big and round eyes, and so on… The unpleasant thing is when the society creates a physical standard of what so called beautiful. That is perhaps drive the person gets friendly with plastic surgery.

Then, should I care about what people think? Hhmm… I don’t know….
I wonder when actually I feel beautiful & sexy… oh yeah… when I feel confident…

Do you feel you are beautiful?


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  • Jacqueline 12 October 2008 18:56
     

    Hello Leet!
    Beauty is all about how YOU feel. I find confident people with a wonderful personality beautiful. The so called pretty ones are usually nasty.

  • Ori 12 October 2008 21:00
     

    ahahah...so this is what that confident for :-)))
    Litt please join http://blogactionday.org/ ya. Put the badge here and write something about poverty, maybe better if you can draw/ paint something about it. Due day 15 Oct

  • Shiko-Msa 12 October 2008 21:01
     

    Oh yes I do feel beautiful even though I'm about 8 Kgs above my medically recommended weight. Once I tried that recommended weight, in my case 65 Kgs, but I lost my curves and did not look good at all! I looked gaunt and my cheeks started going hollow. I'm now up to a healthy weight and I just work at maintaining.

    I once read about this lady who has got so many surgeries and face lifts she has lost count! Her intention was for the surgeon to turn her into a jungle cat because her then hubby loved jungle cats. She's now stretched so tight she has trouble blinking and smiling!

  • Leet 12 October 2008 22:31
     

    Hi Jacqueline,
    I think you are right - and thank you for the info of the pretty things... interesting


    Hi Ori, thanks for the info.
    I will try but not sure can make it. I have lots of things' going on at work at the moment. I remember sketched something about proverty but don't remember where I kept it.

  • Leet 12 October 2008 23:14
     

    Hi shiko-msa,
    Funny thing to say about that lady.
    She looked lovely before, then surgery made her looks like a circus... I feel sorry for her...

  • The Success 12 October 2008 23:22
     

    Nice painting again....
    Nice new logo...
    Nice color...

    Keep the best work...

  • Leet 13 October 2008 04:42
     

    Hi S - thanks, you are very supportive

  • rizal 13 October 2008 20:43
     

    Hi leet,

    thanks for that wish. Terima Kasih3x!!

    Though we all know that inner beauty is the most important, and will finally prevail, but so often the first impression is the one that we take into account. Some people like to say, you know a person for a few minute, that would give you a glimpse of his/her life - which may not be true.

    I am struggling with my outer beauty too though i know inner beauty is the real thing. hehe.. sigh..

    happy monday ya leet.

  • Leet 14 October 2008 06:10
     

    Hi Rizal,
    I think I have a problem with both inner and outher (read: confident)... Not good ya...

  • Mike Foster 15 October 2008 08:07
     

    As they say, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and beauty is skin deep. That said, if you eat right, take care of yourself, are a positive, happy, kind person, then you will be most beautiful.

    peace,
    mike
    livelife365

  • marditomo69 15 October 2008 18:07
     

    Hello Leet,,,,

    Do you remember about batfink club ???
    I'm leader in junior high school....

    Rgds,
    toms

  • IRISH 15 October 2008 18:14
     

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  • Leet 15 October 2008 22:09
     

    Hi Mike, I kind of agree with you -
    I met my high school friend who look beautiful because of healthy food and her personality.

    Hey Tomo,
    Certainly does remember... :-)
    Batfink, BMX, Hai magazine, Cheng Lie, Curuk Luhur, the 80's...
    I wonder how you could trace me... and end up to my gallery...

  • marditomo69 16 October 2008 13:43
     

    lah iyalah masak lah iya donk... tinggal klik google dapet langsung .... namanya juga dunia maya... selama berinternet ria pasti dapet hehehe....

    salam,

    selamat dan sukses....

  • r1ooooo 17 October 2008 16:38
     

    I'm not a loyal fans to any club..LOL
    But I do like AC Milan or Man Utd.

    Watching live in the stadium?what that famous chaos in indo?hell no! haha..

  • tahtimbo 18 October 2008 09:34
     

    I wouldn't pay any attention to what someone says. You lost weight and that is fantastic. I am currently fighting that same battle. My guess is that your friend is jealous of your accomplishment. Keep up the good work!! I also wanted to let you know that you have just received a most prestigious award. You can swing by my site, http://mrmomsunite.blogspot.com , to pick it up...the paparazzi are already there and waiting for you.

  • Leet 18 October 2008 19:47
     

    Hi r1ooooo,
    How about in the UK... I think u should experience it. Amazing atmosphere...

    Hi tahtimbo,
    Thanks for the award, appreciate it - I kind of new with it as well but I try to follow the game.... Cheers

  • mikemathew 22 October 2008 13:17
     

    she actually impregnated him when she inseminated him with a syringe using sperm obtained from a sperm bank. Then, in the second segment of the show, Nate Berkus helped them decorate the baby's nursery and everyone got high on birth control. oprah your nice and beautiful.
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  • Artist Unplugged 25 October 2008 00:36
     

    Love your latest.....and the new look on your site!

  • Leet 25 October 2008 11:23
     

    Hi artist unplugged,
    Thank you, try to get clean...